How to Stop Being Abusive

You can change.

Photo by Nathan Dumlao

I often see multitudes of resources for survivors of abuse and I’m glad I do: It’s so important for people to learn how to heal from physical and verbal beatings.

I’m not writing this article to minimize the survivors’ pain. I’m writing it because abusers experience a deep level of pain and often feel too much shame to change their behavior.

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I pen articles about politics, culture, & writing. https://daniellacressman.squarespace.com/

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Daniella Cressman

Daniella Cressman

I pen articles about politics, culture, & writing. https://daniellacressman.squarespace.com/

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